also, a redaction
i see i sounded like a C yoU Next Tuesday in that single girls thing i wrote the other day. i’ve been super spoiled lately and i guess i forgot that besides having someone to sex with and exchange affection with, it’s invaluable to have someone to really depend on. i guess you could have a similar relationship with friends but its not ever the same because you’re not a couple, you’re not +1, and its not socially acceptable to ask your friend to open all your bottles and jars/reach things on high shelves/buy you annual gifts for staying friends year after year. so theres that. as far as i know, being single is not equal to being terminally ill, and its kinda wack that thats how blogs portray it. thats more what i meant the other day. now i can sleep at night knowing that my secret tumblr will have zero discrepancies.